Kristin Cavallari, former fiancée of Chicago Bears quarterback Jay Cutler, is learning the hard way that wedding dress photos are typically best shot after the actual wedding.

Cutler, pulling a move similar to his NFC Championship Game pull-out, sidelined the impending nuptials just two days after Cavallari completed her shoot with Life&Style Magazine.

Clearly the split caught Cavallari completely off guard given that representatives from the magazine described the 24 year old as “bubbling with excitement” as she revealed during the shoot that she would be wearing a strapless gown, with bridesmaids in black dress on her wedding day.

Cavallari reiterated this mood by stating;   “I want a romantic, mystical wedding with lots of flowers”
Just hours after the engagement was called off, Kristin’s friends began to report that Jay was controlling, was pressuring her to move to Chicago and his parents reportedly wanted Kristin to get pregnant shortly after the wedding.

Cavallari, who is reportedly in shock and disbelief that her dream wedding is ending in such a publicly distasteful manner. Kristin has since been spotted out without her engagement ring – no word on if the couple will consider reconciling.